So, I've been through this before in a previous relationship. Do I think I attract men that cheat? No. Do I think I may be the cause of their cheating ? Possibly. Why do I think that? Well, I have to take some accountibility for why my mate would stray. Do I truly care? Um, not really. Would I rather my mate wasn't cheating? Of course, but at the point we're in our relationship, I'm more disappointed they'd need to lie to me, than the fact they're actually seeking attention or affection elsewhere. I wish I had it in me to cheat, but frankly, I really don't think there's a man sexy enough , fun enough, or discrete enough to cheat with. I'm no supermodel, but I do believe I'm attractive, and I don't know if its child birth, or what that gives me a lack of interest in sexual activity. Oh don't get me wrong. We have sex regularly, but to be honest, I know I'm going through the motions a. to reproduce and have offspring b. to shut him up. Its truly sad. I am not remotely attracted to my mate at all. In fact I find him utterly repulsive. But, I will not repeat my prior mistakes of believing because I think he's sexually unappealing, that other women find him ugly too. Oh no, he seems to believe and has relayed to me that other women find him appealing. Ok good for him. Here's the thing...
TIP: You can't really stop someone from straying outside of your relationship. In fact the more you try to prevent it the more likely it is to happen. The best you can do is try to make the person feel desired by you so they are less likely to look elsewhere. Plain and simple.
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