Weddings are never easy to prepare for. It takes an emotion and financial toll on all involved. In may cases it can be the beginning of the deteroration of your relationship. You learn how much your in laws like or hate you , you learn how involved your mate will be in big decisions or how passive they'll be. you learn a whole lot from your wedding planning.
Do not wait till the last minute to do anything.
Don't expect perfection, something is bound to go wrong.
NO MATTER WHAT promise yourself to keep smiling on the big day.
Don't let your in laws, nor your parents dicate what will make you and your partner happy (ITS NOT THEIR DAY ITS YOURS)
Make solid plans for your future with your spouse. Life does not end at the wedding remember you are stuck with this person forever, especially if you have kids.
PLEASE PLEASE Make sure you establish agreements not just on the financing for the wedding but for joint accounts, mortgage payments, college student loans, rent, car payments, car or home insurance, life insurance, credit cards, any prior debt either of you have.
You will be amased at the number of couples that never really take the time to address these simple issues.
Kids are a big issue, address and come to agreements about them before you marry. I saw the most interesting thing today on the view. Lisa Ling who by the way was fired by Barbera Walters several years ago returned to guest host, and announced that her 2 year marriage was plagued by the issue of kids. Ok, um WTF???!!! As smart as she is you mean to tell me she married a goregeous guy, and they never discussed kids???? WTF???? Are you kidding me. I thought only reality TV and fake bachelor reality show contestants forget to address the issue of kids. So, anyway, Lisa Ling states she's not sure she's ready for kids, and her husband wants kids. Ok, lets take a brad pitt moment to think this through. You see brad had hot piece of a$$ jennifer aniston, they seemed happy, but Brad wanted kids. Jennifer wanted to focus on her career, in comes another hot piece of a$$ Angelina Jolie with her United Colors of beneton kids, and blammm just like that there are now 3 jolie-pitt children, and one very lonely very single about to date a david spade jennifer aniston. Guess they should have had the I want kids talk while they were smoking their weed before the wedding. The point is, there are many wedding planning WTF and OMG during the process of planning the nuptials. Make sure you've really planned and thought this thing thru. And ladies get help. A wedding coordinator can be a gift you request at the bridal shower. Trust me you'll need one.
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