I saw the evidence he cheated

I found condoms and lube inhis car. I was shocked. I was hurt (at first). I cried the first day. But aftera couple of hours I was done. I had suspected for years. I'd find  condoms hidden around the house and I'd make excuses that we used condoms in the past as a form of birth control, so I'd count condoms to see how many came up missing. But then I thought about all the beautiful women that had been cheated on. Halley Berry, Hillary Clinton, Maria Schwieiver, Vanessa Bryant (Kobe's wife), Evelyn Lozada ( I don't think she's pretty, but her marriage was a train wreck). The point is I'm 30lbs over weight. I'm miserable, hate sex with him ( omg he's awful in bed, on top of him being ugly as hell). I know I look like honey booboo's mother with a neck, but damn it I have a choice. I got over it after 2 days of sulking. I didn't confront him about it. What would be the point? He'd either deny it, confess, become belligerent, become abusive, become violent for looking through his car, but would not end it simply because I knew. So, every night I watch him leave to wander off to his mistresses houses. Listen while he chats to his ex-girlfriend. Watch him as he checks my call log on the home phone. Go without a penny for months, unable to repair my car. And I wonder when God will punish him for the hurt and pain he's inflicted? But then I think, why women as great as my mom are going blind, suffer to work, and do so much for an ungrateful family, and live a very lonely existence. Either way, wicked men have had women suffer for years. So, I called my sister(the yutz that introduced me to this douchebag in the first place). She gave me awful advice. I called a chick I thought was a friend but simply told me God will help him. Then my practical friend that essentially said: C'mon! Cry? For what? Has he treated you like he gives a damn about you? Has he ever shown you an ounce of respect? So why does him cheating come as a surprise to add to the mountain of abusive, condescending, and cruel things he's done to you. So, don't even bother shedding another tear for a cruel son of a bitch! Anyway, ladies abuse and cruelty, affairs go hand in hand.  Get a divorce.